5 things I wish for my teen
Posted on January 20th, 2011This post was originally written for Yahoo’s Shine, a place where people post blogs and chat and whatnot and where they have inexplicably made me a parenting guru. The assignment was to write about 5 things we wish for our kids.
As the parent of a teen, I feel like I have very little time left to mold my son
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January 21st, 2011 at 1:00 am
That is sooooo beautiful!!!
I am a teen, and I wish that my mother or father had the courage to speak words of magic, like you just did, to me. It would have made a huge difference in the way that I see them. If they had said something like this, I would not want to rebel against them, in every way possible…
Thank you once again for your beautiful words, they are very powerful to someone like me, whether they make me cry, or laugh, or dream, thank you!
January 21st, 2011 at 2:47 pm
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January 21st, 2011 at 7:13 pm
Thank you, Shelby. You know, sometimes, we parents forget to tell our kids how wonderful they are. And then we keep it inside. And I have to admit, if I hadn’t been given this topic as an assignment, I don’t know that I ever would have told my son all of it at once.Usually we talk, but we don’t ever sit down and say, “here’s 5 things I want you to know.”
So your parents may be thinking this, but not saying it or not say it all at once.
And also, Shelby, I was a lot like you as a teen.Very rebellious. I learned the hard way that rebelling hurt me more than it did my parents. Take care, sweetie. I love that you read my work and I hope you continue to do so.
January 21st, 2011 at 7:17 pm
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January 24th, 2011 at 11:11 am
*Youre so cool! I dont suppose Ive read anything like this before. So nice to find somebody with some original thoughts on this subject. realy thank you for starting this up. this website is something that is needed on the web, someone with a little originality. useful job for bringing something new to the internet!
January 25th, 2011 at 2:50 am
Wow, thank you Laurie! It is very inspiring to read your posts, and then attempt to learn from your actions, or to apply them into my own life. Life is such a challenge when one does not know what to do, but then thanks to the internet, I can come here, and get my head screwed back on straight.
I think that one of the things that I love so much about your blog, is that I can see what a mother would see or think, in response to an action, or lifestyle. I feel that when I visit this site, I can look behind the scenes into the odd world of a mother, and get a better understanding of the way they work.
PS, I will always come back to this site again and again, because it is something special.
January 25th, 2011 at 5:38 pm
Thanks, Shelby. It’s good to know that we are supporting each other–because I learn just as much from you as you do from me!
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